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How to Start a D-Group

Why D-Groups?
Disciples are best made in a community of close relationships. Jesus had Peter, James, and John. The apostle Paul had Timothy, Silas, and Luke. David has his inner circle of three mighty men; Josheb, Eleazar, and Shammah. A D-Group is not just any group, it is a biblical group. That is… a D-Group is a smaller group of about four to six people who meet together to share the Word of God with each other; learn Scripture together, and support and encourage each other through prayer and relationships; and ultimately start more D-Groups and make more disciples (replicate).

Starting a D-Group
D-Groups are easy to start. Simply invite three other people to join you, plan your first get-together, decide what Bible passage the group wants to immerse themselves in, and then follow through and do it!

A great time for a D-Group to meet is when the church is providing ministry to children, such as Sunday or Wednesday evenings. If you are inviting neighbors or Sunday and Wednesday evenings will not work, then get them together and work out the best time for everyone to meet.

If possible, consider inviting three people from your Small Group or Sunday School class. A class that has several people involved in a D-Group is going to be a great class. A D-Group will not only help the participants grow spiritually, it can also help the whole class!

What is Expected in a D-Group Meeting
You need a Bible. The Bible is how God speaks to us, so if you want to hear God speak, a Bible is a necessity. You may also need a journal to record your thoughts and what you hear God speaking to you every day and during your group. I try to avoid reading devotionals for a D-Group and personal devotions. We want to hear what God is saying to us, not to necessarily what someone else wrote about God.

Develop an agreement with other group members (a group covenant), that includes expectations about attendance, preparation, accountability, and also an agreement that what is said in the group, stays in the group.

It is helpful if the group is reading and studying the same passages of Scripture so that members can learn from each other. Each member should have a time of daily devotion. There are many models on what to do in your daily devotion, but here is the one I prefer – the 3 R’s.

Daily Devotions

  • Read – How has God spoken to you today through His Word? (Write words that you highlighted or underlined while you read the Bible? These words are likely how God is speaking to you.)
  • Reflect – Meditate on what you underlined in the daily passage. What needs to change in your life for you to look more like Jesus?
  • Replicate – Who has the Holy Spirit put in your life for you to invest in through service, or through a spiritual or Gospel conversation?

Memorize Scripture verses or passages together.

Pray. Often times, simply praying that day’s Bible reading back to God will unfold tremendous truth as God reveals Himself to you even more.

When the group meets, each person should share the week’s memory verse with the group, plus any previous memory verses the group has memorized together. Then, each member shares what God has done in their lives that they have recorded in the 3 R’s above.

Take time to listen to each other and look for ways to support one another.

And finally, and very important… replicate what God is doing in you with other people, including; your D-Group, family, neighbors, co-workers, friends, etc. Don’t put your lamp under a basket!!! (Matthew 5:15)

3 Arenas of Replication: Self, Group, Mission

Ultimately, disciple-making is about, well… making more disciples. It is often very easy to get so wrapped up in our own personal growth and the growth of your D-Group that it is easy to forget that one the most important things we can do as disciples is to make more disciples. This often involves leaving the group we are in and starting a new group. It also involves sharing the Gospel with lost people and leading them as they become a follower of Jesus Christ and have a personal relationship with Him and with other disciples.

2 Timothy 2:2 is one of the most well used and treasured Scripture verses of a disciple. In this verse, Paul writes,

What you have heard from me in the presence of many witnesses,
commit to faithful men who will be able to teach others also. (2 Timothy 2:2, CSB)

This verse is well known because it has four generations of disciples in only one verse (Paul, Timothy, faithful men, others). In other words, Paul is instructing his protege Timothy to replicate himself – to make more disciples. Paul can encourage Timothy to do this because Timothy knows that Paul replicated himself; not just in Timothy, but in Titus, Silas, Luke, Philemon, Lydia, Mark, Aristarchus, Epaphroditus, and so many more. Paul’s words ring true with Timothy (and with us) because we can see this ministry of replication in Paul’s life, it is clearly visible.

Let’s slow down and make this personal for a moment… as a disciple, is your ministry of replication plainly visible?

Many efforts at making disciples in the local church fall way short of four generations. Few rarely get past generation 2. The problem is that at generation 2 (identified in the verse as Timothy’s generation), we are still operating on the level of addition. But once the disciple-making movement reaches generation 3, and definitely generation 4, it has moved from addition to multiplication. Our failure to replicate beyond generation 2 is the reason most disciple-making movements in the local church fizzle out.

Three Arenas of Replication

Replicate Yourself
The first arena of replication is to replicate yourself. We will not initiate a movement if we have not successfully initiated this first arena. You may lead someone to Christ and have the opportunity to show this new believer how to meditate on God’s Word, pray, live in biblical community, and replicate themselves in someone else. Perhaps you know a church member or someone or some people in your small group with whom you could form a D-Group to help them better follow Jesus. But the fact of the matter is, a mature disciple is a replicating disciple.

Replicate Your Group
When a disciple forms a new D-Group, they should immediately begin making plans to lead that group to start another group, or even groups! This is the generation 2 problem discussed a couple of paragraphs above. When a group fails to replicate, it freezes the movement at generation 2, plus it robs the disciples in the group of an opportunity to start a new group themselves. For multiplication to occur, groups must replicate and the more often the better.

Replicate the Movement
Disciple-making does not become a movement until individual disciples are making disciples evangelistically and personally, AND individual groups are replicating and forming more groups. Paul had a massive impact on making disciples, not just personally or in groups, but as a movement because he encouraged both personal and group disciplemaking.

Feel free to leave your questions or comments in the comments section below.

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Bob Mayfield is the Sunday School and Discipleship specialist at the Baptist General Convention of Oklahoma. You can follow Bob on his blog at bobmayfield.com, Twitter at @bobmayfield and Facebook @thebobmayfield.

The Disciple and Scripture Memory

One of the most important spiritual disciplines of a disciple is memorizing God’s Word. Some may scoff at this idea as impractical, old-fashioned, beneath an adult follower, or just plain ridiculous; but the fact of the matter is that it is the truth.

First, consider the value that the Bible itself places on memorizing His Word.
Joshua 1:8 – This Book of the Law shall not depart from your lips, but you shall meditate on it day and night…
Psalm 1:2 – Instead, his delight is in the Lord’s instruction, and he meditates on it day and night.
Psalm 119:11 – I have stored up your word in my heart that I might not sin against you.
Colossians 3:16 – Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly…
Second, consider biblical characters who memorized Scripture. Jesus memorized Scripture. He quoted it in His battle with Satan during the wilderness temptation. Moses commanded the Israelites to memorize Scripture and teach it to their children (Deuteronomy 6:4-9). In the book of Acts, the disciples often quoted Scripture when preaching. The list of people in the Bible who memorized Scripture is lengthy.
Third, it is the bedrock discipline in focusing our minds on Christ and furthering our own spiritual growth. Dallas Willard wrote, “Bible memorization is absolutely fundamental to spiritual formation. If I had to choose between all the disciplines of the spiritual life, I would choose Bible memorization, because it is a fundamental way of filling our minds with what it needs.”

From Why to How To…

For most people, beginning efforts at memorizing Scripture requires a team process. This need is a primary reason why it is important for students and adults to belong to some type of discipleship group that memorizes Scripture as part of its regular meeting. Here are some suggestions to help people memorize Scripture.

1. Make Scripture memory a part of your discipleship group process. Start the group meeting by letting each person share the group’s assigned memory verse – from memory! If Scripture memory is delayed to the end of the meeting, the group often runs out of time for memory. Quoting the memory verse during the group meeting provides the accountability necessary for Scripture memory.
2. Read the verse in context. Read the entire chapter the verse appears two or three times to get a grasp of the verse as it relates to the direction of the text. This process will add meaning to the verse.
3. Write the selected verse for memory in your journal every day. Try to write as much as you can from memory. Check your work to make sure that you have written the verse precisely as it appears in the Bible.
4. Say the verse out loud. Okay, it may seem weird at first, but actually speaking the verse out loud will help you learn it faster than reading or writing it. Try to say the verse 10 times in a row without mistakes.
5. Partner up. Find someone that will listen as you speak the verse.
6. Start slow and build. Start by memorizing one or two verses a week. You will be amazed at how quickly you will become an expert at memorization.
7. Challenge yourself. Move from memorizing single verses to memorizing entire Bible passages, chapters, or even books; such as 1 Corinthians 13, Philippians 2:1-11, or the book of James.
Finally, develop the art of meditating on Scripture all day. In Psalm 1:2, the psalmist writes that “he meditates on it (the Bible) day and night”. This verse is a metaphor that means that he meditates on God’s Word all the time.

The Ask (Asking A Guest to Join the Group)

Mark 1:17 reads, “Follow Me,” Jesus said, “and I will make you fish for people.” (HCSB)

Throughout the Gospels, we see Jesus asking people to follow Him. Jesus wanted people to join Him on His mission to seek and save the lost, but to accomplish this mission Jesus made the habit of asking people to join Him.

Yet many Sunday School classes and small groups often forget to ask a guest participating in their group if they would like to join it!

People will rarely enroll in a group unless they are asked. An informal survey of people joining the church’s small groups or Sunday School are often people that are joining the church and are simply taking the next required step of membership. Asking someone to join your group is so simple…

Ask them!!

Here are a few helpful ideas…

  • Make sure enrollment cards are available at every meeting. That also includes a writing utensil that works.
  • Combine the guest and enrollment cards. Simply add a checkbox to the guest card that states: “I would like to join this group.”
  • Whoever is responsible for taking roll in the group should ask every guest to fill out the guest card, and be sure to ask them if they would like to join the group.
  • If possible, the person responsible should offer to fill out the guest card for the guest. Not only does this lead to asking the above question, but it also means that someone can read the handwriting on the card!
  • Use the proper verbiage and attitude. “Would you like to join our wonderful group?” sounds so much better than, “You wouldn’t want to join our group… would’ya?”
  • And… a guest does not have to be a church member or attend three consecutive times to join or enroll in the group!

All it takes is “the ask.”

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Bob Mayfield is the Sunday School/Discipleship specialist at the Baptist General Convention of Oklahoma. Bob also has his own blog at bobmayfield.com.
Follow Bob on Twitter at @bobmayfield and on Facebook at facebook.com/thebobmayfield

4 Critical Steps for A New Believer (Baptism, Bible Study, Prayer, Community)

Someone you know or a guest in the church has just become a new follower of Jesus Christ!!

Fantastic!!! That is wonderful…

Now what?

I doubt many people would give a person who had never driven before the keys to their new car. Someone who has just become a new believer needs some guidance as they begin their journey of faith in Jesus Christ. Here are four critical steps that you can share with a new Christian as they begin their walk with Christ.

Baptism
Yes, the first step is to be biblically baptized. Baptism is an outward sign of an inward reality; that this person has found new life through Jesus Christ and has made Jesus the Lord of their life. Your church may offer a baptism class, or maybe counseling to help this new Christian with his or her new faith. Encourage them to get baptized as soon as possible.

Bible Study
If the new believer does not have a Bible, help them get one! Encourage them to read the Bible daily. A daily soaking in Scripture is vital to spiritual growth. Which translation should they have? Here are two suggestions: 1) the translation that the pastor preaches from; 2) the translation that you or your Small Group uses at group meetings. The book of Ephesians is a great book for new believers because it is full of the doctrine of the church and it is only six chapters long. Afterward, help them get into a daily Bible reading plan.

Prayer
The best way to teach a new believer how to pray is to pray with them. Let them learn from you that prayer is a two-way conversation with God.

Community
A new believer needs a biblical community. Encourage them to become a member of a local church. But they will need more than membership. They need a smaller group where they will belong. A Sunday School class or a Small Group is an outstanding place for a new believer to develop new friends and mentors; to study God’s Word; and for ministry and prayer. A Small Group is really how the church is organized to be… well to be the church! Most likely, the smaller group is where a new believer is going to find people willing to walk alongside him or her, and disciple them into spiritual maturity.

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Bob Mayfield is the Sunday School/Discipleship specialist at the Baptist General Convention of Oklahoma. Bob also has his own blog at bobmayfield.com.
Follow Bob on Twitter at @bobmayfield and on Facebook at facebook.com/thebobmayfield