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Identify Your One – Part 3

Make sure you read parts 1 & 2 to know the process.

Week #2

To begin this week, repeat the same introductory comments and basic instructions from last week.  This week the class/group will identify both friends and co-workers who are not Christians.  Give each person three blank sheets of paper and a pen.  Ask everyone to draw a circle and then to write their own name in the circle.  After everyone has completed this step, ask them to draw another circle around the first circle and to draw four blank lines inside the larger circle.  Instruct everyone to write the names of their four closest friends in the four blanks.  Say, “Now place a check mark by the names of your friends you know are Christians and active members of a church.”

After completing the first part of this week’s process, ask everyone to take the second sheet of blank paper and to draw a small box.  The box will represent their place of work or their desk at work.  Now ask them to draw a box above their box, another below their box, and then one to the right and one to the left of their box.  Instruct everyone to write the names of the people they work with in the four boxes.  After everyone has completed writing names, invite them to place a check mark by the names of those they know are Christians and active members of a church.  Unchecked names on both sheets should be considered prospects.

After each person has completed placing the check marks on their circles and workplaces, ask them to take the third blank sheet.  The purpose of this sheet is to help each person develop a list from which they will identify their ONE.  Ask the members of the group to write the names that are not checked in their first two sheets onto this third sheet.  These names can be added to those listed from last week.  Ask everyone to pray for those on their list(s).  The focus next week will be discovering those relatives and acquaintances who are not Christians.   Close in prayer.

Dr. Smith is the lead state missionary with the Georgia Baptist Mission Board and serves the Sunday School, Small Groups, Discipleship and Faith Development Specialist.  Visit their website at gabaptist.org/groups/ for more information and other resources to aid your Sunday School or Small Group.  Dr. Smith is available for conferences or other speaking opportunities and can be contacted at tsmith@gabaptist.org.

Identify Your One – Part 2

Make sure you read part 1 to know the process. 

Week #1

Following your introductory comments, say, “In week one, we will identify those in our homes as well as our neighbors in need of salvation.  Please remember that this will be a very sensitive subject because some of us have family members who are lost.  As we identify those lost in our homes, we are not saying that they are bad people.  They are lost.  There are many good people who are lost.  Please remember that whatever we say in our class/group time is to stay inside our group.”

Give everyone three blank sheet of paper and a pen.  On the first sheet, ask them to draw a simple floor plan of their house or apartment.  Ask them to write the names of those that occupy the bedrooms.  At this point you will say, “Now place a check mark next to the names of those you know are saved.”  Remind the class/group that we are not talking about church membership or even baptism.  The question is, does that person have a personal relationship with Christ?

Using the second blank sheet of paper say, “Draw a square that will represent your house or apartment and then add the streets or hallways nearest to your home.”  “The next step is to draw squares for the nearest four homes/apartments to your home/apartment.” After everyone has completed their drawings, have them write the names of the people who live in each of the homes/apartments.  This should include everyone that lives in the dwelling, both adults and children.  If they do not know all the names, instruct them to write in a question mark.  After all names have been written, instruct the group to place a check mark by the names of people they know who are saved and active members of a church.

After each person has completed placing the check marks on their floor plan and neighborhood map, give them the third blank sheet.  The purpose of this sheet is to help each person develop a list from which they will identify their ONE.  Ask the members of the group to write the names that are not checked in their first two sheets onto this third sheet.  Ask everyone to pray for those on their list.  The focus for next week will be discovering our friends and co-workers who are not Christians.  Close in prayer.

Dr. Smith is the lead state missionary with the Georgia Baptist Mission Board and serves the Sunday School, Small Groups, Discipleship and Faith Development Specialist.  Visit their website at gabaptist.org/groups/ for more information and other resources to aid your Sunday School or Small Group.  Dr. Smith is available for conferences or other speaking opportunities and can be contacted at tsmith@gabaptist.org.

Identify Your One – Part 1

Do you know who your one is?  Do the members of your Sunday School class know who there one is?  In this post and the two to follow you will learn a process to help you discover who your one is as well as guiding your class or group to do the same.

The steps in this process may seem simple or even childish but these ideas will help you discover that one that needs Jesus.

The goal of  “WHO’S YOUR ONE?” is for every member to identify at least one person that is lost and without Christ.  This discovery process is designed to aid you in leading your class/group to identify lost people.  At the conclusion, every member of your class/group is to have at least one lost person that they are praying for and sharing the gospel.

Beginning the Discovery Process

If you do not prepare your class/group, you will discover fewer prospects.  The key to the success of the process is to communicate in advance with the members of class/group.  The leaders will need to educate members about this three-week process before it begins.

What will you tell your members?  “We are identifying people that are lost and in need of Christ as Savior.  In week one we will identify those in our homes and our neighbors who may be lost.  In week two we will identify our co-workers and our friends who are lost.  In week three we will identify our relatives and those we have regular contact with who are lost.  So go ahead and start praying asking God to show you who in your home, neighborhood, workplace, friends, and family that may be lost.”

As you begin the process each week during class/group time, say, “If you have been a Christian for two or more years, then more than likely the large percentage of your friends are Christians.  It could be that we have never really thought about the spiritual condition of those around us.  The goal of “WHO’S YOUR ONE?” is for each of us to identify at least one lost person.  We are going to be praying for them and sharing the gospel with them.  Today we are going to identify our _________ (family members in our homes/neighbors, co-workers/friends, or relatives/acquaintances) who are lost..”

The weekly process should not take more than five-ten minutes of the class/group time.  Throughout the process you will need to remind the class/group why they are doing the prospect discovery process.  You may even have to bring some people up-to-date because they were absent the previous week.

Dr. Smith is the lead state missionary with the Georgia Baptist Mission Board and serves the Sunday School, Small Groups, Discipleship and Faith Development Specialist.  Visit their website at gabaptist.org/groups/ for more information and other resources to aid your Sunday School or Small Group.  Dr. Smith is available for conferences or other speaking opportunities and can be contacted at tsmith@gabaptist.org.

Building Accountability in a D-Group

The topic of accountability is not very popular with many church leaders. I understand their reluctance because there have been those that have abused their leadership position and been very heavy-handed in holding others accountable. Meaningful accountability will exist only if all those involved benefit from the steps toward the goal. Everyone must benefit and none should be abused or belittled. It is also important to realize that no spiritual growth takes place outside the realm of accountability.

The first step in building accountability in your group is to share and understand all expectations. Make sure that all expectations are understood from the leader/mentor as well as the group members. The basic expectation that builds accountability is attendance and participation. In my group I still take attendance every week.

Another thing I do to build accountably is waiting until the week before I give them the materials to be studied the following week. In many groups they get three to six months’ worth of study materials at the beginning of the group. I’ve found that it works best to give it to them just one-week or one-session at a time.

The thing that I’ve found that works the best is giving my group members responsibilities related to the group time. I share the leadership roles. They know well in advance of when they have a leadership responsibility and it is never a surprise thrown at them. The roles to be shared are leading the ice-breaker, taking prayer requests, telling or reading the Bible passage, and guiding the discussion.

During the week it’s also important to work to build accountability. Everyone needs to be prayed for and know that others care. To make this happen assign your group members a different accountability partner every month for the purpose of talking every week for prayer requests and then praying for each other.

These are just a few ideas of helping you build accountability in your group, but please remember that accountability does happen without first building trust. Show people you care and then accountability will come natural to your group.

Dr. Smith serves as a state missionary with the Georgia Baptist Mission Board and is the Sunday School, Small Groups and Faith Development Specialist. Visit their website at gabaptist.org/groups/ for more information and other resources to aid your Sunday School or Small Group. You can also connect with Dr. Smith at facebook.com/GABaptistGroups or twitter.com/GABaptistGroups. Dr. Smith is available for conferences or other speaking opportunities and can be contacted at tsmith@gabaptist.org.

The Disciple and God’s Word

I was preaching on a Wednesday night and asked the group “how many of you want to be like Jesus?” to stand up. Now remember this is the cream-of-the-crop, the best-of-the-best, in the church. These were not the once-a-month attenders but rather they were the hard-core church supporters. Everyone in the room stood up. I was not surprised and neither were they because isn’t that the goal of every Christian, to be like Jesus.

Then I thanked them and asked to be seated but not before taking an index card out of the pew pocket in front of them. My follow up question revealed what I believe the number one factor that has influenced our nation’s spiritual, social and political environment. “How much time do you spend each day in the Bible?” When I say “in the Bible” I’m talking about reading, studying, listening to, memorizing, and meditating on. I asked them to only write the number of minutes on the card and pass it forward, don’t sign it.

Only 20% of the cards came back with anything written on them which to me meant that 80% of them didn’t do anything with the Bible every day. The average of those that responded with a number was a little less than 30 minutes a day. I was amazed that in this church only 7 people out of every 100 read their Bible for than 45 minutes each day. We all want to be like Jesus and we want to know Him better but we don’t connect the fact that to really know Him we must be in His Word. The Barna Group put it this way, “One of the most important convictions you can ever form is the conviction that Jesus, as a real, living, precious person, is known today chiefly through his word.”

What are some things you can do to make sure your Sunday School class is engaged with God’s Word every day?
1. Commitment to daily Bible reading. Make it a goal for every member to read through the Bible in a year.
2. Couples reading the Bible together every day. Help your church by helping your families. Nothing makes stronger homes than families that read the Bible together.
3. Call on men and women to gather in triplets to hold each other accountable for daily Bible reading and memorization of scripture. Meet together once a week and pray together.

In I Samuel 3:21 it states that, “The Lord revealed himself to Samuel at Shiloh by the word of the Lord.” I think the same is true about Jesus. He makes Himself known to us through His Word. The issue for us is how much do we really want to be like Him?

Dr. Smith serves as a state missionary with the Georgia Baptist Mission Board and is the Sunday School, Groups and Faith Development Specialist. Visit their website at gabaptist.org/groups/ for more information and other resources to aid your Sunday School or Small Group. You can also connect with Dr. Smith at facebook.com/GABaptistGroups or twitter.com/GABaptistGroups. Dr. Smith is available for conferences or other speaking opportunities and can be contacted at tsmith@gabaptist.org.