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Connect through Groups 2

How do you ask someone to get involved in your Sunday School class or small group Bible study?  Your church may use the term “enrollment” or “connected”.  Whatever term you use the end result is the same.  You should be aggressive to add new people to the ministry list of your class or group.

When inviting a new person to join your group please share with them the positive experiences you’ve had in your group.

  • Every week your group is praying for each other.  Tell them that others will be praying for them.
  • We love to get together.  My group gets together about once a month for a fun time outside of our regular group time.  This is done to help promote the development of friendships.
  • Bible study. The study of God’s Word is best thing about our group.  We find answers to some of life’s hardest issues.  We also gain a better understanding of who God is by studying the Bible.
  • At this point tell the new person how you’ve been ministered to by your group.  All of us have had those tough times and most of us would not have been able to make through those times if it were not for our group.

One way to think about it is that you are sharing Sunday School/group testimony. Don’t try to be the salesperson but rather be that satisfied customer telling the benefits.

Dr. Smith is the lead state missionary with the Georgia Baptist Mission Board and serves the Sunday School, Small Groups, Discipleship and Faith Development Specialist.  Visit their website at gabaptist.org/groups/ for more information and other resources to aid your Sunday School or Small Group.  Dr. Smith is available for conferences or other speaking opportunities and can be contacted at tsmith@gabaptist.org.

 

Connect through Groups 1

Your ONE is now saved and baptized.  You better get them in a group for their spiritual growth will be become stalled.  Do all you can to get the new believer involved in your class/group.  Let them ride with you or greet them at a centralized location.  Sit with them and spend time together after class/group time.

For generations we’ve witnessed the value of being connected to a group.  Thom Rainer found that those led to the Lord, baptized, joined the church and attended worship that around 15% of them were active in the church five years following their salvation.  Compared to those that did all the above but were involved in a group, over 80% of them were still involved in church five years following their salvation.

What are some of the benefits of being involved in a group?

  • Intercession: The person can be prayed for regularly whether they attend weekly or are struggling spiritually.
  • Invitation: The person can be regularly invited to participate in fellowship opportunities where meaningful relationships can be developed.
  • Involvement: The person is encouraged to engage in Bible Study that strengthens their relationship to God, to family, and to Kingdom service.
  • Inclination: The person is challenged and more likely to engage in evangelism and outreach than a person not enrolled in a small group.

Dr. Smith is the lead state missionary with the Georgia Baptist Mission Board and serves the Sunday School, Small Groups, Discipleship and Faith Development Specialist.  Visit their website at gabaptist.org/groups/ for more information and other resources to aid your Sunday School or Small Group.  Dr. Smith is available for conferences or other speaking opportunities and can be contacted at tsmith@gabaptist.org.

Invitation 3 – The Gospel Invite

Amazingly, just last Sunday (August 11), our pastor told the church that the student he was baptizing had been led to Christ the previous week in her small group.

Wait.

What. Just. Happened?

Yes, it’s true. It is possible for people to commit their lives during a small group meeting. Why don’t we see this more often?

In addition to all the reasons that may exist, there are three primary reasons why we do not see more people (children, students, and adults) coming to Christ in our small groups.

  1. We do not invite lost people to our groups. (See yesterday’s post)
  2. We do not offer opportunities during the group meeting for people to receive Jesus.
  3. We do not aware of the spiritual conditions of the people in our group.

Here are some ideas to help your group be more evangelistic.

First, if you are using curriculum that is doctrinally sound, then there are opportunities to explain the gospel and extend an invitation to receive Christ. LifeWay curriculum has at least one study per quarter that is intentionally designed as a gospel opportunity.

Second, discover the spiritual condition of the people in your group. Ask people to share their spiritual story (testimony). Engage group members in one-on-one spiritual conversations.

Third, offer opportunities to receive Christ as Savior and Lord during group meetings. You do not have to sing Just as I am, or have background music. They do not have to “walk the aisle” in small group. Simply ask the group to raise their hand if they want to receive Christ. Or… invite them to visit with you after the group meeting or send you a text message during the week.

Generally, the more open and free the Bible discussion is, the more freedom a lost person in the group has to ask gospel questions and respond to opportunities to receive Christ.

Invitation 2-Invite to Group

One of the best and most overlooked opportunities to introduce people to Jesus is a small group. Why? Because many people need to kick the tires of Christianity. What better place to give Christianity a test drive than in a small group of believers. Instead of hearing about prayer, Bible study, fellowship, and ministry… invite a friend to actually experience it.

While you are developing a friendship with a lost person, be sure to share experiences from your small group. Share stories of what your group does and how it impacts you. Whet their appetite. When you do offer to bring them to your group, they will be more than ready to accept your offer.

As a group, there are several things you can do to make your friend feel welcome.

  • Wear nametags. Put yourself in your guest’s shoes. It is difficult to meet 5-10 (or 20) people at once and remember their names. Nametags help.
  • Never let a guest sit alone in your group. Always make sure that a guest has people sitting around them and talking with them
  • Sometimes it is easier to invite a guest to a group fellowship (Baptist party) for their first interaction with the group.
  • Have a spare Bible or two available during group meetings.
  • Never call on a guest to pray or read.
  • Plan special group meetings that are conducive to guests.

It is important that the group still pray and study the Bible when guests are present. Guests will not be offended. If you invited a guest to play golf, imagine their surprise if you never left the putting green. Same would be true if you invited a guest to go fishing, but you did not take any bait or fishing rods. Guests expect the group to pray and study God’s Word together.

Go on. Invite friends to your small group. It will be a great experience for your friend, for you, and for your group.

 

Building Accountability in a D-Group

The topic of accountability is not very popular with many church leaders. I understand their reluctance because there have been those that have abused their leadership position and been very heavy-handed in holding others accountable. Meaningful accountability will exist only if all those involved benefit from the steps toward the goal. Everyone must benefit and none should be abused or belittled. It is also important to realize that no spiritual growth takes place outside the realm of accountability.

The first step in building accountability in your group is to share and understand all expectations. Make sure that all expectations are understood from the leader/mentor as well as the group members. The basic expectation that builds accountability is attendance and participation. In my group I still take attendance every week.

Another thing I do to build accountably is waiting until the week before I give them the materials to be studied the following week. In many groups they get three to six months’ worth of study materials at the beginning of the group. I’ve found that it works best to give it to them just one-week or one-session at a time.

The thing that I’ve found that works the best is giving my group members responsibilities related to the group time. I share the leadership roles. They know well in advance of when they have a leadership responsibility and it is never a surprise thrown at them. The roles to be shared are leading the ice-breaker, taking prayer requests, telling or reading the Bible passage, and guiding the discussion.

During the week it’s also important to work to build accountability. Everyone needs to be prayed for and know that others care. To make this happen assign your group members a different accountability partner every month for the purpose of talking every week for prayer requests and then praying for each other.

These are just a few ideas of helping you build accountability in your group, but please remember that accountability does happen without first building trust. Show people you care and then accountability will come natural to your group.

Dr. Smith serves as a state missionary with the Georgia Baptist Mission Board and is the Sunday School, Small Groups and Faith Development Specialist. Visit their website at gabaptist.org/groups/ for more information and other resources to aid your Sunday School or Small Group. You can also connect with Dr. Smith at facebook.com/GABaptistGroups or twitter.com/GABaptistGroups. Dr. Smith is available for conferences or other speaking opportunities and can be contacted at tsmith@gabaptist.org.