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Who are you praying for…by name?

Someone once said, “If you aim at nothing you are sure to hit it!”  The same principle applies to how we pray for people.  Sometimes our prayers can be so general that we would never really know how God answered.  “God, save the lost of our community,” is a way out of taking responsibility to be ambassadors for Christ.  When we don’t know their names, we often don’t take ownership of the command to go and share the good news of the gospel. 

Several years ago, I served in a church with a couple that oversaw the local community corrections office.  We would pray that God would use them to communicate the gospel message to those who had been in trouble with the law.  That prayer changed dramatically, however, when I volunteered to help them.  All of a sudden when I prayed for these men and women, they were no longer the faceless lost.  To make a long story short, this is what happened to me:

  1. I began to pray specifically for each one of them by name.
  2. I could no longer pray without seeing their faces.
  3. I began to understand their unique struggles and asked God to meet their specific needs.
  4. I began to ask God to allow me to be the one to share Jesus with them and to see them get saved.
  5. I began to meet more of their friends, which I added by name to my prayer list.
  6. I saw some get saved and baptized as a result of my new awareness of who they really were, rather than just a group of people that all needed Jesus.

Flake emphasized the importance of praying by name in his later book, The True Functions of the Sunday School. He stated:

The name of every man, woman, and child in the community who is a stranger of grace should be in the possession of the church and the pastor. It is very much easier to become intensely concerned about the salvation of the souls of people when we know them personally, who they are and where they live.

Bill Smith may be only one of a hundred lost people in the community. However, the chances of winning Bill Smith to Christ are multiplied a hundredfold when we have his name, age, address, and know from his own testimony that he is a lost man.   [Dwayne McCrary (2019). (p. 12). It Begins With Prayer – eBook. LifeWay Press. Retrieved from https://app.wordsearchbible.com]

Who are you praying for by name? 

Written by Ken Beckner, Sunday School, Small Groups, Disciple Making, and VBS Director, Kansas-Nebraska Convention of Southern Baptist

Stage 5: Deploy

7968765254_133dddc4b3_zEvery football season begins the same way for just about every team at every level. Each team has high hopes of a championship; develops a playbook; positions its players at their areas of strength; and has weeks of training and practice. Imagine how foolish it would look however if at the season opener, the offense went out on the field, huddled up, called the play… but never left the huddle.

As ridiculous as the above scenario may be, unfortunately it is a visual image of what happens in many churches all over the nation. Teachers have been trained and Bible study lessons have been prepared. Rooms have been furnished or homes have been cleaned and made ready for company. But the play that our Lord and Savior has given us is to be fishers of men; to share the Gospel; to make disciples! Can I share a three words of encouragement with you if this scenario describes your church and small group.

Run the Play!

The fifth ingredient of Flake’s Formula is “Go after the people.” Rick Howerton and David Francis define it using one word – deploy. Jesus said “Go make disciples…” It is an imperative direction. It requires action. Groups that choose to always remain in the huddle are not going to engage people with the Gospel. Many churches use a passive approach of engagement and outreach. Announcements about Bible study groups are made from the pulpit. But announcements are passive.

Here are three suggestions to help deploy your church’s groups (or your group):

Weekly outreach
Weekly outreach fell out of favor years ago. There are all kinds of reasons given as to why churches no longer have weekly outreach, such as; families do not like people knocking on their door; participation by church members is low; events at the church facility have replaced outreach; and… well it just isn’t cool anymore.

I was the interim education minister at a church recently. This church had not done ANY outreach at all for over a decade. They had adopted a “if they need us they know where to find us” approach. Now that is the ultimate “passive outreach” strategy! Instead of beginning an ongoing, 52 weeks of of outreach plan, we began with an 8 week outreach burst. We met on Sunday evenings and went visiting! After eight weeks, our outreach teams had visited in the homes of over 350 people! Our teams led people to the Lord. We saw people baptized as a direct result of our action-oriented strategy. Every week we heard comments like this; “We have visited several churches the past couple of months, but your church is the first church that ever came to visit us.” Guess whose church these people joined! (This church continues to effectively use this strategy of short, 6-8 week outreach bursts 3-4 times a year.)

Connection Day
You may remember it as Friend Day or High Attendance Day, but set aside a couple of days a year that encourages and organizes church members to invite friends to come to church with them. In other words, “run the play”. If only 10% of your people respond, your church will have a lot of new faces present and it will engage a lot of people that need Christ and community.

Special Events
If your church’s process for engaging people with the Gospel is to ultimately to get them into a small group or Sunday School, shouldn’t the church’s events help pave the way for that to happen? Every event hosted by the church should point participants toward small groups. Register every person present (you can not follow up on people if you have no contact information). Enlist a person or two to share their story at the event of how their small group has ministered and helped them during a difficult time. Always have a table or booth set up with information about your groups and a person or two to help answer questions or provide needed information.

Deploying group members is vital to making disciples. As group leaders it is important for us to create opportunities in addition to our Bible studies to help deploy our group members.

It is one thing to call the play…. but it is another thing to actually run the play.

Run the Play!!

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Bob Mayfield is the Sunday School/Small Group specialist for the Baptist General Convention of Oklahoma (BGCO). Bob also has his own blog at bobmayfield.com. The BGCO also has an online training site with over 200 videos available at reconnectss.com.

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