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Connect through Service and Stewardship 1

Studies of people who have made a decision to leave a church often cite a failure to find a place of meaningful service as a frequently mentioned explanation. People want to know that their lives are having impact!

For a Christian, this is a godly attribute because God has wired His people to want to make a difference and equipped them for that purpose! 1 Peter 4:10 says:

“Just as each one has received a gift, use it to serve others, as good stewards of the varied grace of God.” (CSB)

  • Help them discover the gift they have received. Many assessment tools exists, but simply trying out different avenues of service may be the best way to discover something that clicks.
  • Teach people the interconnected design of the body of Christ. Show how every person’s work is connected in some way to the gospel mission of the church.
  • Model service as an expression of worship. When we serve, we are bringing honor to the God who designed us, called us, and placed us in the body. Service is a testimony to His grace.

To “connect your one”, help them find a place of service!

Connect through Groups 3

As a Sunday School teacher or a small group Bible study leader you need to know the members of your group.  You should be praying for them every week and praying for them by name and specifically praying to the needs in their life.

If you can’t identify the information below about everyone in your group it could be that your group is too large and it’s time to start another group.  Or you need to do a better job of getting connected to those in your group.

What is it that you need to know in order to really connect with those in your group?  You need to know the following …

  • Their name. We need to call people by name even at church.  We need to use their names when we pray out loud in your class/group.
  • Family members. If you are going to connect then you better know those who live with them.  Who is in their household.
  • Their joys. What do they love to do when they have a day off or where do they go on vacation?  What are their hobbies and interest?  Know those things and help connect them with those in the group that have similar interest.
  • Their hurts. All of us have something that has our attention.  Pray for them and help them with their hurt.

If you don’t know these things about people it is doubtful that you will fully connect with them.  But in order to know these things about others you first must be willing to let these things be known about you!

Dr. Smith is the lead state missionary with the Georgia Baptist Mission Board and serves the Sunday School, Small Groups, Discipleship and Faith Development Specialist.  Visit their website at gabaptist.org/groups/ for more information and other resources to aid your Sunday School or Small Group.  Dr. Smith is available for conferences or other speaking opportunities and can be contacted at tsmith@gabaptist.org.

Connect through Groups 2

How do you ask someone to get involved in your Sunday School class or small group Bible study?  Your church may use the term “enrollment” or “connected”.  Whatever term you use the end result is the same.  You should be aggressive to add new people to the ministry list of your class or group.

When inviting a new person to join your group please share with them the positive experiences you’ve had in your group.

  • Every week your group is praying for each other.  Tell them that others will be praying for them.
  • We love to get together.  My group gets together about once a month for a fun time outside of our regular group time.  This is done to help promote the development of friendships.
  • Bible study. The study of God’s Word is best thing about our group.  We find answers to some of life’s hardest issues.  We also gain a better understanding of who God is by studying the Bible.
  • At this point tell the new person how you’ve been ministered to by your group.  All of us have had those tough times and most of us would not have been able to make through those times if it were not for our group.

One way to think about it is that you are sharing Sunday School/group testimony. Don’t try to be the salesperson but rather be that satisfied customer telling the benefits.

Dr. Smith is the lead state missionary with the Georgia Baptist Mission Board and serves the Sunday School, Small Groups, Discipleship and Faith Development Specialist.  Visit their website at gabaptist.org/groups/ for more information and other resources to aid your Sunday School or Small Group.  Dr. Smith is available for conferences or other speaking opportunities and can be contacted at tsmith@gabaptist.org.

 

Connect through Groups 1

Your ONE is now saved and baptized.  You better get them in a group for their spiritual growth will be become stalled.  Do all you can to get the new believer involved in your class/group.  Let them ride with you or greet them at a centralized location.  Sit with them and spend time together after class/group time.

For generations we’ve witnessed the value of being connected to a group.  Thom Rainer found that those led to the Lord, baptized, joined the church and attended worship that around 15% of them were active in the church five years following their salvation.  Compared to those that did all the above but were involved in a group, over 80% of them were still involved in church five years following their salvation.

What are some of the benefits of being involved in a group?

  • Intercession: The person can be prayed for regularly whether they attend weekly or are struggling spiritually.
  • Invitation: The person can be regularly invited to participate in fellowship opportunities where meaningful relationships can be developed.
  • Involvement: The person is encouraged to engage in Bible Study that strengthens their relationship to God, to family, and to Kingdom service.
  • Inclination: The person is challenged and more likely to engage in evangelism and outreach than a person not enrolled in a small group.

Dr. Smith is the lead state missionary with the Georgia Baptist Mission Board and serves the Sunday School, Small Groups, Discipleship and Faith Development Specialist.  Visit their website at gabaptist.org/groups/ for more information and other resources to aid your Sunday School or Small Group.  Dr. Smith is available for conferences or other speaking opportunities and can be contacted at tsmith@gabaptist.org.

Connect Through Prayer and Bible Study 2: Speak to God

Prayer and Bible study are powerful tools for connecting. When we pray with people, we demonstrate that we care and that God cares. When we open God’s Word together, we hear His plan to love us into relationship with Him through Jesus.

What are practical ways to connect through prayer and Bible study? Take these actions together:

  1. Bible study. Open God’s Word together. Examine the context. Together seek to understand what God’s message was to the original hearers. What was the point of the passage? Then seek to apply that message or point to life today. Finally seek to understand God’s personal message to each of you.
  2. When you opened God’s Word, He spoke. Now, what is your response to what God said in Bible study? This is your opportunity to agree with Him, to confess to Him, and to make requests of Him in response. Speak, write, or pray your response to Him.
  3. God spoke. You responded, but God expects change as a result of the encounter with Him in His Word. What does He want you to do, and are you willing to do what He expects? Are you willing to commit to change? Tell Him in prayer or writing.
  4. To this point, you have not carried out the change that God desires. It is important to review your response to His expectations over the next few days. Are you making progress? Bottom line: did I do what God expected? The is where the encouragement of a friend or reviewing a journal can help us to keep our commitments to God.

These steps of prayer and Bible study offer great opportunities for connecting. They allow us to demonstrate transparency. We become encouragers and cheerleaders. Connections matter!

Darryl Wilson serves as Sunday School & Discipleship Consultant for the Kentucky Baptist Convention and is the author of the Sunday School Revolutionary blog. He served churches in Kentucky and South Carolina as Minister of Education & Administration.