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Making prayer a priority

How many times have you heard or maybe even said, “There is nothing else to do but pray.” In reality, shouldn’t it be the first thing we do?

A couple of days ago, I was putting some new books on my shelf. I turned my back for a second, and the books started falling like dominos. That’s when I realized I had forgotten to put the bookend back.

How often do you do the same thing in your life? You treat prayer like a forgotten bookend by beginning or ending with prayer but find you are way too distracted to spend quality time with God talking and listening.

When I went through cancer, I learned that one of the most humbling things is having to depend on others. But as children of God, we are totally dependent on Him for our justification, sanctification, glorification, and every single breath we take.

The Apostle Paul said in 1 Thessalonians 5:17-18, “Pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”

When we spend little time with God, we are implying, “I can handle things.” When we talk to God in the name of our Lord, the door to the throne of God is opened up. 

When you pray, your conversation with God should be filled with passion both for Him and for:

  • Those in our groups
  • Those who are lost
  • Our family and friends
  • God to show us how we can move from isolation to innovation in a pandemic environment 
  • God to reveal ways we can serve those who have needs

Never stop praying. We should always delight in spending time conversing with our Father.

Take time to teach those in your Sunday School class or group how to pray as part of your discipleship.

Written by Rick Hughes, Groups Sr. Consultant/Coach, North Carolina Baptist Convention

Encouraging Those Making Specific Prayer Requests

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Relationships require trust and care. Sunday School and small groups are either built upon trusting, caring relationships or these groups become very superficial. Real relationships require more than words. Our actions speak louder than our words.

Prayer is an action that is critical for adding trust and care into our relationships with each other AND with our community. But, again, prayer is more than a promise. The promise of prayer builds trust and care when it is accompanied by two actions: praying and following up.

Prayer Requests

There are some small but important ways that we can encourage those who are making prayer requests that build care and trust in powerful ways. Consider these seven steps:

  • REQUEST: ask, How can I pray for you and your family?
  • LISTEN: listen carefully to what is shared (look them in the eye; listen beyond the words; ask clarification questions when needed)
  • WRITE: write down the request (this is more critical than you think: your memory is not as good as you think and it is a visual message to the requester about how important you believe their request is)
  • PRAY IN PERSON: ask, Do you have time for me to pray for you right now? (asking says you care about their schedule and the requests)
  • SEEK CONTACT INFO: if you don’t have contact information for the person (who might be a prospect, for instance), ask, Would you share your email, phone, or text number so I can follow up on the request in a few days?
  • PRAY ONGOING: promise to continue praying–and be faithful to do so
  • FOLLOW UP: follow up on the request in a few days (ideally in person or by phone–this makes it even more personal); contact to ask (for instance), How did your mother’s surgery go?

Prayer Really Matters

When our prayer requests with members, prospects, and the community include these seven steps, people will know several things about us:

  1. we believe in a God to whom we pray
  2. we actually believe prayer works
  3. we really care and believe prayer will help
  4. we are not just saying we will pray, we show it
  5. we don’t just care at the moment but continue to care for them as persons.

When our relationships include this kind of prayer requests and prayer, care and trust are built over time with everyone. We are drawn closer to God and to others. Our care will attract more people to our groups. Our world needs more prayer and care. Won’t you take time to ask someone how you can pray for them today?

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How Do We Effectively Gather Prayer Lists?

Missy was the class prayer leader for the Next Stage of Joy (Empty Nesters) class in our church. Each week she took pride in asking for prayer requests at the beginning of the class and then leading us in a guided prayer for these people. Before long, 20 minutes of the class time was being taken just for gathering names and praying, and Missy realized that was taking too much of the Bible study time away from John, our teacher. So, she decided to find some creative ways to gather the names of the people for which we needed to pray.

First, Missy handed out a list each week on a clipboard and asked people to add any names and reasons for their addition to the prayer list. (Missy was very sensitive to the fact that not everyone wanted the details of their health condition or special requests made known to everyone. So she encouraged people to be sensitive as they wrote reasons down. She urged people to share a reason without breaking anyone’s confidence or violate the HEPA laws. Yes, she had to explain the HEPA laws several times.) Then, she took that list and made copies for everyone in the class. At the end, she called attention to the names and encouraged people to pray for these people throughout the week. Missy now had the challenge of keeping the choir members up to date with these requests. The choir members would leave about five minutes before the class was over. And of course, she always hoped John left her at least a few minutes. Prayer seemed very rushed.

After an emphasis on prayer in the church body, she developed a bulletin board in the room that was called our “Prayer Board.” On the board, she divided the board into seven days of the week. And for each day of the week, she had headings — Monday – Family/Church Health Concerns, Tuesday – Outreach Opportunities/Ministry Projects, Wednesday – Pastor and Staff and Teacher, Thursday – Missionaries, Friday – Witnessing Opportunities, Saturday – College Students/Children/Grandchildren. She developed a pocket of index cards that she kept on the bulletin board. As people walked in, she would always ask people to update the board with requests under each category. People would then fill out the index card and place the name or situation under each category. As she began, almost everything listed was under Family/Church Health Concerns, but after about three months, people had placed needs under every category. Each week, she would make sure she took a picture of the board and sent it to every person by email or postal mail. People could use it as part of their prayer time each day.

Someone also taught Missy how to use the computer to keep an updated prayer list. She was very nervous about this one because of security issues. Still, she finally got to the point where she created a Facebook group that she designated as a secret group. With all the security settings checked off to make sure only people in the class could be members of the group, she encouraged people to share prayer requests through the Facebook group. Then each day, she posted a prayer that acknowledged the particular needs of the day. Missy learned how to post a Facebook Live video of the prayer requests and created a template that people could record their answers to prayer. People were slow to use the group at first, but now the group creates lively discussions of prayer needs for health, job, family, witnessing opportunities, leaders, and other areas. Each Sunday, Missy points people to the Facebook group for prayer requests and prayer time. John now even has more time to lead the Bible study, and people are still encouraged and held up in prayer.

Missy says she continues to find new ways to keep up with prayer requests and opportunities. One of the things we in the class know is that Missy will keep prayer before us. We lift up each other, the church, and our mission opportunities all the time!

Written by Ken Kessler, Coaching Network Director/Northern Seminary Liaison, Baptist General Association of Virginia

The Class Prayer List

For church to really have a vibrant, healthy groups ministry they must first establish and understand the elements of successful groups.  At the top of my list is an emphasis on prayer.  The prayer emphasis for a Sunday School class or small group must be …

… praying for each other,

… praying for those not in the group and

… praying during the group time. 

I’m amazed at the number of classes and groups that don’t spend serious time in prayer when they gather.  Sure they pray but it’s more like a general “God bless everything and fix everybody” prayer.  Maybe instead of taking prayer requests for 10 minutes and praying for 10 seconds we could reverse that.

Our classes and groups need to praying for those not in our group.  We need to be praying for lost family members and friends!  We need to be concerned about people’s spiritual condition more so than their physical condition.

And yes, we must be praying for each other!  Dwayne asks four questions to consider in strengthening our ministry of prayer in our groups.  First, “How do we efficiently gather accurate prayer requests?”  I hope that every time your class or group gathers, you provide an opportunity for the sharing of prayer needs.  Make sure that the requests are written down.  Second, “To whom should we communicate these requests?”  Not everything needs to be known by everyone.  There are some requests that do not need to put on the bulletin board or sent out in an email. Third, “How do we communicate the requests?”  My group sends out an email with the prayer requests before we even leave the group time.  During the week we get another email updating the prayer list.  Finally, “How can we encourage those making a specific request?”  There’s been times when I’ve just stopped right when the request is made and prayed.  I’ve even had the group to gather around the person and pray for them.  People are so very encouraged when they hear their name being called out in prayer.

These four questions will be highlighted in future blogs.  The one thing I would ask every class and group to is to pray for everyone in their group at least every week.  To verbally call out their name and their need(s) to the Lord.  You’ll be amazed what will happening to your group when they start praying for each other.

Dr. Smith serves as the regional discipleship consultant for the Georgia Baptist Mission Board.  He is a Sunday School, Small Groups, Discipleship and Faith Development specialist. Dr. Smith can be contacted at tsmith@gabaptist.org.

What about Students and Kids?

I was recently reading “It begins with Prayer” by Dwayne McCrary of LifeWay. It made me start wondering why students and kids have been left out of the equation when it comes to ministry. We include them in the group to reach and teach them but far too many times we as disciples of Jesus exclude them in the work of ministry. Is this a result of lack of trust or possibly the lack of intentional effort in making disciples? We as a church have made the Great Commission, Matthew 28:19, a classroom experience instead of practical application. You see, the thrust and the emphasis in this verse of scripture is MAKE and you do this AS YOU GO. One of the greatest ways to learn is by doing. This is what Jesus did! As He lived His life He brought along 12 others and taught them how to love God and love others. Jesus poured out His life into His disciples and He has called us to do the very same thing.

I’ve heard so many churches say the Youth are the future of the church, but we know the correct response is they are the church now if they have put their faith and trust in Christ. Maybe the reason so many teens stop coming to church after High School is because we have excluded them in the very thing that helps people build community and stay involved in church their entire life. I wholeheartedly believe serving is one of the main factors for people to build friendships, grow in discipleship, and actively become a part of the local community.

So what about students and kids? I’m glad you asked! We can involve our younger Christ followers by including them in almost every area of church ministry. Think of this, how about we teach our Youth how to be a part of evangelism by bringing them with us as we visit and lead others to Christ. We can teach them about caring by allowing them to make contacts through small groups. This list could go on for a long time. Serving matters, we must be intentional in involving students and kids in ministry as we go!

Written by Jay Barbier, Youth Specialist, Tennessee Baptist Mission Board