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Making prayer a priority

How many times have you heard or maybe even said, “There is nothing else to do but pray.” In reality, shouldn’t it be the first thing we do?

A couple of days ago, I was putting some new books on my shelf. I turned my back for a second, and the books started falling like dominos. That’s when I realized I had forgotten to put the bookend back.

How often do you do the same thing in your life? You treat prayer like a forgotten bookend by beginning or ending with prayer but find you are way too distracted to spend quality time with God talking and listening.

When I went through cancer, I learned that one of the most humbling things is having to depend on others. But as children of God, we are totally dependent on Him for our justification, sanctification, glorification, and every single breath we take.

The Apostle Paul said in 1 Thessalonians 5:17-18, “Pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”

When we spend little time with God, we are implying, “I can handle things.” When we talk to God in the name of our Lord, the door to the throne of God is opened up. 

When you pray, your conversation with God should be filled with passion both for Him and for:

  • Those in our groups
  • Those who are lost
  • Our family and friends
  • God to show us how we can move from isolation to innovation in a pandemic environment 
  • God to reveal ways we can serve those who have needs

Never stop praying. We should always delight in spending time conversing with our Father.

Take time to teach those in your Sunday School class or group how to pray as part of your discipleship.

Written by Rick Hughes, Groups Sr. Consultant/Coach, North Carolina Baptist Convention

How Do We Effectively Gather Prayer Lists?

Missy was the class prayer leader for the Next Stage of Joy (Empty Nesters) class in our church. Each week she took pride in asking for prayer requests at the beginning of the class and then leading us in a guided prayer for these people. Before long, 20 minutes of the class time was being taken just for gathering names and praying, and Missy realized that was taking too much of the Bible study time away from John, our teacher. So, she decided to find some creative ways to gather the names of the people for which we needed to pray.

First, Missy handed out a list each week on a clipboard and asked people to add any names and reasons for their addition to the prayer list. (Missy was very sensitive to the fact that not everyone wanted the details of their health condition or special requests made known to everyone. So she encouraged people to be sensitive as they wrote reasons down. She urged people to share a reason without breaking anyone’s confidence or violate the HEPA laws. Yes, she had to explain the HEPA laws several times.) Then, she took that list and made copies for everyone in the class. At the end, she called attention to the names and encouraged people to pray for these people throughout the week. Missy now had the challenge of keeping the choir members up to date with these requests. The choir members would leave about five minutes before the class was over. And of course, she always hoped John left her at least a few minutes. Prayer seemed very rushed.

After an emphasis on prayer in the church body, she developed a bulletin board in the room that was called our “Prayer Board.” On the board, she divided the board into seven days of the week. And for each day of the week, she had headings — Monday – Family/Church Health Concerns, Tuesday – Outreach Opportunities/Ministry Projects, Wednesday – Pastor and Staff and Teacher, Thursday – Missionaries, Friday – Witnessing Opportunities, Saturday – College Students/Children/Grandchildren. She developed a pocket of index cards that she kept on the bulletin board. As people walked in, she would always ask people to update the board with requests under each category. People would then fill out the index card and place the name or situation under each category. As she began, almost everything listed was under Family/Church Health Concerns, but after about three months, people had placed needs under every category. Each week, she would make sure she took a picture of the board and sent it to every person by email or postal mail. People could use it as part of their prayer time each day.

Someone also taught Missy how to use the computer to keep an updated prayer list. She was very nervous about this one because of security issues. Still, she finally got to the point where she created a Facebook group that she designated as a secret group. With all the security settings checked off to make sure only people in the class could be members of the group, she encouraged people to share prayer requests through the Facebook group. Then each day, she posted a prayer that acknowledged the particular needs of the day. Missy learned how to post a Facebook Live video of the prayer requests and created a template that people could record their answers to prayer. People were slow to use the group at first, but now the group creates lively discussions of prayer needs for health, job, family, witnessing opportunities, leaders, and other areas. Each Sunday, Missy points people to the Facebook group for prayer requests and prayer time. John now even has more time to lead the Bible study, and people are still encouraged and held up in prayer.

Missy says she continues to find new ways to keep up with prayer requests and opportunities. One of the things we in the class know is that Missy will keep prayer before us. We lift up each other, the church, and our mission opportunities all the time!

Written by Ken Kessler, Coaching Network Director/Northern Seminary Liaison, Baptist General Association of Virginia

Creating Care Groups That Serve Others

Now more than ever people need care. How can the church effectively provide this care? People in the church need to be organized and trained to care for one another, their neighbors, and isolated, hurting people.

In the past, Sunday Schools or small groups might be organized in terms of care groups. These care groups were designed to discover the needs of people in the Sunday School class or small group to be sure the needs got met. The expectation to meet these needs might be shared with other church leaders or the pastor.

Two shifts are needed. The first shift needed is for the group itself to respond to the need once it is discovered. The second shift is for the needs of people who have never attended the group to be considered as a means of ministry and outreach to them. The pressure people are now experiencing presents an opportunity to address church and community needs differently.

Care groups may not be a new idea to your church. But shifting the expectation for service to the care group itself might be. Consider these steps in re-framing your care groups from needs discovery to needs meeting groups:

  • Determine the number of care group leaders needed and expectations for them
  • Enlist care group leaders and provide training for them.
  • Create care groups by organizing people by geography, life situation, or interest.
  • Balance the care groups mixture of regular, sporadic, and never-attenders.
  • Provide regular feedback for care group leaders so they can learn through serving

The need for care is not the only need people have. People also have a need to serve. People need the spiritual growth that comes from serving others. If the need for serving others is understood as a means to spiritual growth, people may start finding value in serving.

Written by Clint Calvert, Church Leadership Catalyst,  Minnesota-Wisconsin Baptist Convention.

Could this work with my Sunday School class?

Anytime we form smaller groups from a large group we have a better chance of creating community.  Large groups have community, but it is not until we begin to pare down these groups that real community has the opportunity to manifest itself.

With that said, true community does not happen without intentionality.  I know this personally because I was part of a group for eight years that did not create community.  There were times I was away for weeks and I never received a phone call, email, text or face to face encounter to inquire about how I was doing or where I had been. You get the picture.  Relationships can, and should, be built by leaders creating an atmosphere that precipitates people getting together.

In this short section of the book on page 25, there is a question that is raised, and I think it is a good question to ask, “What about prayer and the role it plays in building community within a Sunday School class?”  When I read the question I immediately thought about our friend and colleague David Francis.  In one of his “Franciscan Epistles” entitled “Connect 3” he proved that when a class purposely incorporated prayer, they not only changed the atmosphere of the gathering, but also changed how they prayed.  General prayers about saving the world, or healing the sick, or blessing our church, became more specific in nature.  The lost now had names and many were people they knew.  It is amazing that when prayer becomes a center point to any group, it changes the dynamic of the group and enhances the community being built.

We should not be asking if prayer should be a part of our community, but rather, how much time will be allotted for prayer when we gather.  

Written by Dwayne Lee, Associate Team Leader for the Bible Teaching/Leadership Resource Group of the State Convention of Baptists in Ohio

Who are you praying for…by name?

Someone once said, “If you aim at nothing you are sure to hit it!”  The same principle applies to how we pray for people.  Sometimes our prayers can be so general that we would never really know how God answered.  “God, save the lost of our community,” is a way out of taking responsibility to be ambassadors for Christ.  When we don’t know their names, we often don’t take ownership of the command to go and share the good news of the gospel. 

Several years ago, I served in a church with a couple that oversaw the local community corrections office.  We would pray that God would use them to communicate the gospel message to those who had been in trouble with the law.  That prayer changed dramatically, however, when I volunteered to help them.  All of a sudden when I prayed for these men and women, they were no longer the faceless lost.  To make a long story short, this is what happened to me:

  1. I began to pray specifically for each one of them by name.
  2. I could no longer pray without seeing their faces.
  3. I began to understand their unique struggles and asked God to meet their specific needs.
  4. I began to ask God to allow me to be the one to share Jesus with them and to see them get saved.
  5. I began to meet more of their friends, which I added by name to my prayer list.
  6. I saw some get saved and baptized as a result of my new awareness of who they really were, rather than just a group of people that all needed Jesus.

Flake emphasized the importance of praying by name in his later book, The True Functions of the Sunday School. He stated:

The name of every man, woman, and child in the community who is a stranger of grace should be in the possession of the church and the pastor. It is very much easier to become intensely concerned about the salvation of the souls of people when we know them personally, who they are and where they live.

Bill Smith may be only one of a hundred lost people in the community. However, the chances of winning Bill Smith to Christ are multiplied a hundredfold when we have his name, age, address, and know from his own testimony that he is a lost man.   [Dwayne McCrary (2019). (p. 12). It Begins With Prayer – eBook. LifeWay Press. Retrieved from https://app.wordsearchbible.com]

Who are you praying for by name? 

Written by Ken Beckner, Sunday School, Small Groups, Disciple Making, and VBS Director, Kansas-Nebraska Convention of Southern Baptist