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Creating Care Groups That Serve Others

Now more than ever people need care. How can the church effectively provide this care? People in the church need to be organized and trained to care for one another, their neighbors, and isolated, hurting people.

In the past, Sunday Schools or small groups might be organized in terms of care groups. These care groups were designed to discover the needs of people in the Sunday School class or small group to be sure the needs got met. The expectation to meet these needs might be shared with other church leaders or the pastor.

Two shifts are needed. The first shift needed is for the group itself to respond to the need once it is discovered. The second shift is for the needs of people who have never attended the group to be considered as a means of ministry and outreach to them. The pressure people are now experiencing presents an opportunity to address church and community needs differently.

Care groups may not be a new idea to your church. But shifting the expectation for service to the care group itself might be. Consider these steps in re-framing your care groups from needs discovery to needs meeting groups:

  • Determine the number of care group leaders needed and expectations for them
  • Enlist care group leaders and provide training for them.
  • Create care groups by organizing people by geography, life situation, or interest.
  • Balance the care groups mixture of regular, sporadic, and never-attenders.
  • Provide regular feedback for care group leaders so they can learn through serving

The need for care is not the only need people have. People also have a need to serve. People need the spiritual growth that comes from serving others. If the need for serving others is understood as a means to spiritual growth, people may start finding value in serving.

Written by Clint Calvert, Church Leadership Catalyst,  Minnesota-Wisconsin Baptist Convention.

Praying as a Means of Serving

Tucked away in Luke’s account of Jesus’ birth story is a woman named Anna. A widow for almost all of her adult life, the Bible says this about how Anna spent decades of time:

Luke 2:37 (CSB)

…She did not leave the temple, serving God night and day with fasting and prayers.

Anna’s dedication to prayer was counted as service to the Lord. Prayer can be viewed as service in some very practical and important ways.

First, Prayer serves God. When we pray, we aren’t providing God with information that He needs. But we are providing God with interaction that He wants. Scripture is filled with examples of how God invites us to call upon Him, seek Him, ask of Him, and cry out to Him. Because God desires for us to have this dynamic, active relationship with Him, we serve Him when we pray. 

Second, Prayer serves Others. Within His own sovereign authority, God has determined to work through the prayers of His people to accomplish something in another person’s life. In Acts 12, Peter is in prison, but the Bible makes a point to note that the church was praying for him. God miraculously delivers Peter in response to those prayers. We also serve others in prayer by letting them know that we are lifting up their needs to the Father. Many are encouraged to hear that someone else is praying for them.

Third, Prayer is a service to yourself. In 1 Samuel 12:23, Samuel remarks that to fail to pray for the people of Israel would be a sin against the Lord. Praying for others is an act of service to self because it maintains personal holiness, closeness to God, and greater understanding of His will.

Like Anna, when you pray you are serving God!

Written by David Bond, Executive Administrator, Arkansas Baptist State Convention

What about kids?

Prayer is an important part of our faith, and teaching kids to pray can be so exciting. So, how do we do it? The best way to teach about prayer is frankly to pray.  Pray in front of your kids and pray with your kids. 

Let your kids see you pray.  When kids hear their parents and their teachers pray, they begin to develop their own understanding of its importance, and their belief in it.  As you pray, demonstrate for your kids how easy and natural it is to talk to God.  God isn’t concerned about the eloquence of our words, or the length of our prayers, what He wants is to communicate with us.

It is important that we teach kids how to pray, and not what to pray. Let them pray using their own words. Look for opportunities to teach your kids to pray.  Saying a quick prayer for a police officer when you hear a siren or thanking God that a child wasn’t hurt when he fell down, are ways to teach kids that God is interested in everything.

Make time for prayer. Let kids share prayer requests and bring them to God together. It takes time, but it is so worth it. If your kids are hesitant to pray out loud, let them finish a sentence.  For instance, say “Thank you God for friends.  Thank God for” – and let a child name a specific friend.  Using this format will help children become more comfortable praying aloud.

Create a prayer wall where kids can write down prayer requests and keep track of how God answers them. Pray specifically for these requests throughout the week. Take a prayer walk around the church praying for the teachers who are teaching God’s word. Pray for the Pastor as he preaches God’s word. Pray for the staff as they lead in their areas of ministry.

Encourage your children to talk to God about whatever is on their mind.  They can pray anytime and anywhere. There is no request that is too small, and no request that is too big.  God loves to hear them all.

Written by Donna Blaydes, Childhood Education Specialist, Tennessee Baptist Mission Board

Praying for Lost People

You are sitting in a church meeting when someone says, “We should pray for the Lost”.  Now I am sure God knows exactly the names of the lost people in the world.   But often we do not as we have not cared enough to get to know them and ask if they have given their heart to Jesus.

This was made even clearer to me when I asked the members of our church to write down the names of unchurched people in our area that we could begin praying for their salvation.  Many members confessed that they did not know of anyone locally.    If we do not know their name, then it is hard to see how God will use us to share with them.

And he was teaching them and saying to them, “Is it not written, ‘My house shall be called a house of prayer for all the nations’?.”  Mark 11:17

Here are some reasons to pray for lost people by name:

1.       It will require you to get to know them well enough to know whether they are saved or not.

2.       Someone told me not to pray about something unless I was willing for God to use me to be an answer to the prayer.   Praying for them by name will make you consider, does God want me to be the answer to this prayer.

3.       Will you be part of the answer by developing a relationship with them in an effort to share Jesus with them.

Dr. Mark Yoakum is the Director of Church Ministries for the Southern Baptists of Texas Convention. He has served as Minister of Youth, Minister of Music, Minister of Education and Executive Pastor in churches in Missouri, Oklahoma, Arkansas, and Texas.

Written by Dr. Mark Yoakum, Director of Church Ministries, Southern Baptists of Texas Convention

PRAYING Together for lost Friends

I do Breath Prayer weekends with those concerned about unsaved family and friends. We exchange prayers by texting during the day. Here’s the format. 

SATURDAY: DESPERATE PRAYER

Talking Points to influence our prayer are based on the story from SyroPhoenician mother who won’t go away. (Mark 7:24-30; Matthew 15:21-28) Her prayer was based on these points:

  • Her compelling need: a daughter’s torment
  • Her helplessness: can’t fix this herself
  • Her disqualification from getting an audience (pagan, woman, foreigner, Jesus’ “Do not Disturb” sign)
  • Her shamelessness: I’ll do anything for my child
  • Her acknowledgement: the Messiah, “Son of David”
  • Her humility: kneeling, worshipping. “Lord… Lord… Lord”
  • Her persistence: The disciples beg Jesus to send her away, she ignores them
  • Her passion: “shouting out,” “pleading”
  • A bewildering silence and seeming insult, “dogs” [doggies]
  • Her fixation on, “First…” (v 27); “Then I’ll be next!”
  • Her respectful, creative, desperate prayer: “Give me what I don’t deserve because of your goodness – and I need it now.” (Tim Keller)
  • Her anticipation, “Granted!”
  • Her honor: one of only two Jesus commended, “Your faith is great!”

Breath prayer: Lord Jesus, Son of God, hear our cry for mercy and choose, call and reveal Jesus to [our friend] (Galatians 1.15-16)

SUNDAY: TEAM PRAYER

Talking Points to influence our prayer are based on the story of Four men partnering to save their friend (Mark 2.1-12).

  • Their compulsion to see a friend get healthy
  • Their decision: get him to Jesus, then we’re done
  • Their teamwork; can’t do it alone
  • Their “impossible… difficult… done” spirit (Hudson Taylor)
  • Their creativity
  • Their work maneuvering him upstairs, opening the roof
  • The crowd’s irritation with dust and distraction; but not Jesus
  • Their teamwork: Jesus sees their faith and responds
  • Our Lord’s affectionate, “Son…”
  • The bewildering surprise: spiritual healing first
  • Then physical healing, eliciting the man’s faith to respond
  • Our desire: creative, persistent, team faith

Breath prayer: See our faith, Lord Jesus, and forgive and heal [our friend] spiritually.

(Bonus: FRIDAY: PERSONAL PERSISTENCE)

Talking points to influence our prayer are based on The widow seeking justice (Luke 18.1-8), the man needing bread at midnight (Lk 11.5-8).

Breath prayer:  Jesus, I persist in prayer, expecting a response. You asked, “Will I find faith when I return?” Yes, in me! Save [my friend]!

Written by Paul Johnson, Canadian National Baptist Convention Team Leader, Church Strengthening